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Failing to follow e-mail
etiquette. I believe in the old adage, "You catch more
flies with honey than with vinegar." There's no point in
belaboring the etiquette issue. We all know we should be
polite. But here are a few points to consider: |
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Don't write when you're
angry. Wait 24 hours. Calm down. Be reasonable. Have
someone else edit your e-mail. |
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Don't use sarcasm. You may
think you're clever, but the recipient will be put off. |
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DON'T USE ALL UPPERCASE!
That's the e-mail equivalent of yelling. Your recipient
won't be appreciative. Go easy on the exclamation marks,
too. Overuse dulls their effectiveness. |
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Use clear subject lines.
That will help people decide whether to read the e-mail
now or later. We're all busy. Your correspondent will
appreciate your thoughtfulness. |
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Keep it short. If your
e-mail is more than two paragraphs, maybe you should use
the telephone. |
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Change the subject line if
you change the topic of a thread. |
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Unless the recipient has
previously agreed, don't forward poems, jokes, virus
warnings and other things. You're just wasting valuable
time and bandwidth. |
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Thinking you are
anonymous. If you are sending nasty missives, you
might think no one will be able to figure out that the
e-mail came from you. After all, you set up a phony Web
address. Think again. E-mail contains invisible
information about the sender.
That information is in the header. All major e-mail
programs can display header information. Here's how: |
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In Microsoft Outlook, double
click the e-mail. Then click View > Options. |
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In Microsoft Outlook
Express, click the e-mail. Then click File > Properties
and select the Details tab. |
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In Eudora, double click the
message. Then click the Blah Blah button. |
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In Netscape, click the
message to open it. Then click View > Message Source to
display the header.
In Xgen , Simply click on Headers, and you will be
displayed all headers. |
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The sender's revealing
information is in the sections that begin with
"Received:." There may be several of these, depending on
the number of computers the e-mail traversed. The
originating computer is in the bottom "Received:."
That section will have an Internet Protocol (IP) number,
such as 124.213.45.11. It can be traced on a number of
Web sites. I use Apnic (www.apnic.net).
The number is probably assigned to the sender's Internet
service provider, rather than the sender. But the ISP
will be able to identify the sender using that number.
Remember the header if you're tempted to send an
anonymous e-mail. You may be less anonymous than you
think. |
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Sending e-mail to the
wrong person. Today's e-mail programs want to make
it easy to send e-mail. This means that when you start
typing the address of a recipient to whom you have
previously sent mail, the "To:" field may already be
populated. Be careful. Always double-check the recipient
is the intended one.
In addition, if you're writing something ugly about Joe
Smith, you'll have Joe's name on your mind. Don't send
it to him. I once knew an intern at a newspaper who did
just that. He didn't like his supervisor and said so in
graphic terms in an e-mail. Then he accidentally sent
the e-mail to his supervisor. (The intern kept his
position, but the atmosphere was cold, to say the least.
And there was no job offer at summer's end.) |
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Using one e-mail address
for everything. I have four different e-mail
addresses: private, public, one I use for online mailing
lists, and another for when I go shopping online. These
addresses attract mail for those specific areas.
I can have as many as I want, because I host my own
e-mail server. But if you are using an Internet service
provider, you still can do this. Most providers will
give you a half-dozen e-mail accounts. You can also use
addresses on the Web for personal accounts. Both Hotmail
and Yahoo! are good. You can reach those accounts from
anywhere, assuming you have Web access. |
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Forgetting to check all
of your e-mail accounts. Checking all these accounts
can be a chore, especially from home. So I use ePrompter
(www.eprompter.com),
which can check 16 different password- protected
accounts. Best of all, ePrompter is free. There are
other programs that will do this for a fee, including
Active Email Monitor (www.emailmon.com). |
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Clicking "Send" too fast.
Reread every e-mail before you send it! I actually get
e-mails from job applicants with misspellings and
missing words. They all go to the same place: the
garbage. This is a pet peeve. I'm not going to hire
someone who is careless.Even if you're not looking for a
job, you want to be careful. People will judge you
subconsciously on mistakes. None of us is perfect. But
you can catch 99% of these problems by rereading the
text.
And don't depend on the spell-checker. It will catch
misspellings. But if you use "four" instead of "for," or
"your" for "you're," it won't tell you. It also is not
likely to catch any missing words in a sentence that you
inadvertently failed to include. So take a minute and
reread your text. Don't look like an ignoramus. |
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Forgetting the
attachment. This seems obvious, but I can't tell you
how many times I've received an e-mail with a missing
attachment. Since we all do it occasionally, it
shouldn't be a huge deal.
However, if you consistently make this mistake, people
(perhaps important people) may think you're losing your
marbles. They might even hesitate to do business with
you in the future. When you get ready to send your
e-mail, think: "What am I forgetting?" |
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Using your ISP's domain
and not your own. Make your company look big. If you
use a Web account or an ISP's name for your business,
you're not going to look professional. You can buy a
domain name separately for 700-1000 Rs/- per year from a
company such as
DataInfosys (www.registerit.in),. Assuming someone else
hasn't already grabbed it, you can have your company in
the domain name.
Let's say you run The BoolaBoola Co. If you use an ISP's
address, you would have something like
JoeBoolaBoola@SomeISP.com. But if you buy your own
domain name, it could be
Joe@TheBoolaBoolaCo.com. That's much more likely to
impress your customers.
E-mail is almost like talking. We use it so much that we
don't really think about it. But there are rules and
courtesies, just as there are with talking. And there
are other considerations involved in communicating by
written word only.
Giving them some additional thought could make your
e-mail experience more satisfying and your recipients
much happier. |
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